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17808628? ago
I only ever lurk but I'll post because I feel I really am starting to need help and I don't know where else to start with getting it.
How can a 18 (almost 19) year old female virgin find a husband without negative attention from my social group for "being a dumb kid who got married too fast" or "god it's so sad kids having kids" I don't have much people in my life and I don't want them to think less of me for wanting a family
How do you ask a guy what his values are without sounding autistic
How do I share my values without seeming weird
How do I bond and show love for my boyfriend (when I get one) if I want to stay a virgin till we are married
I was raised atheist but with good morals because of my dad (and because I took rules too literally I am told) would me starting to go to a local church to meet a guy with similar values be a good idea, or is that manipulative in nature?
I know this one sounds stupid but can I ask a guy out first without seeming like a hussy?
How different is self-improvement strategies for females vs males, will most of /SIG/ work the same for me as any other anon
How important is it for a girl to finish high school if she wants to be a stay at home mom anyways (I got suspended & dad said f-it you can do it online and we have not gotten around to it yet)
is their a webpage with a right wing polictal ideals but more girls then boys
Unrelated to how to get a boyfreind stuff I have had problimes like crying randomly and screaming in my sleep since my dad has gotten me back from my mother, we went to the docter they said it was ptsd (I still say thats a bit strong of a word for whatever this is but whatever), dad is 100% anti jew pill pushing but he let me try them, this went on and on and every pill made me way worse so he pulled the plug after the 2 years-ish of trying diffrint medication. So I'm off what they were giveing me for a year now but I still am kinda screaming and crying any /pol/ aproved fixes other then time?
17848419? ago
Consider the following:
<odinia.org
<strike up a conversation or be friendly, but don't ask out
<definitely court not date (very important)
<do not allow any physical escalation besides handholding
<you can and should straight up ask about values, preferably first, so you don't waste valuable time
I hope things work out for you.
17838934? ago
Church is a good place to start. Just beware of fake Christians.
First and foremost, I would recommend trying to find men that are at LEAST 5 years older than you. The ideal range is 5-15 years older, depending on your age.
The biological reality is that men and women are on different timelines. 19 is a perfect age to start a family for females, but terrible for males. Men typically should wait until 25-30 to start.
If you look for men that are between 25-35, you can determine if they are already able to support you being a stay at home mom. This is not possible with 20 year old boys. They may have potential, but you'll never know if they'll succeed or become losers.
An easy to way to test the waters if the man is interested in a family, is to get really excited with any baby you see around. Tell him how cute they are, then look at his facial reaction. A 19 year old boy will probably get freaked out, knowing he can't support a family, and a baby would ruin his youthful years of freedom. An older man that is only in using your body for lustful sex will also usually get freaked out. I intentionally avoid women that do not like babies.
Look for men that love hanging out with kids that are between ages 4-12, for example if there are kids in their family. You can't really expect men to love babies, but family oriented men usually love children once they hit about 3-4 and start saying funny stuff. Look for men that spend time with their family, and most importantly, treat their mothers well.
Unfortunately I can't really think of any physical places that specialize in mixing males/females of appropriate age differences. One of the toxic elements of our society is that we arrange people based on equivalent age. This works in say elementary school but is toxic when you extend that to college girls. So, church is a good place to start.
Not sure if I would recommend online dating because it's where TRP trolls hang out, and loser creepy dudes, and it's unnatural. Real life activities are best.
Bonding with your boyfriend should be natural. If he tries to force sex too early it's because he's either a douche or he's a boy your age that is raging with hormones (that means he feels a burning desire to use your body for sex, which is not really his fault, but another reason to avoid boys).
Once you've been together long enough, you can let him play with your tits. Once you are engaged you can give him blowjobs. But do NOT sacrifice your virginity until you get married and have agreed on the number of kids you want to have. Virginity is HIGHLY VALUABLE and not something you should be ashamed of.
I am personally looking for alternatives to Catholicism. That is, something that clearly and strongly considers birth control an evil temptation, but is not a church that harbors and protects child molesters.
17838936? ago
But anon, we can't do that anymore. Society forbids guys from pursuing girls that much younger than him. I'm late 20s and couldn't go for an 18 year old, for example.
17838939? ago
Sure you can. People just frown upon it. In most western countries, 18 is the legal age of consent, period. Even if the man is 90. The only exception would be, it is illegal to get her drunk, which is a good thing.
Also in many states 16 is legal. Which is getting a little sketchy, so I would recommend 18 being the minimum you pursue, and 25 being the absolute max if you want to have a large family.
17840221? ago
That's what I said. Even the shittiest of liberal parents are going to stop their daughter from hanging out with "that old guy." And girls are told by each other (and older women) to stay away from guys older than they are. I have an old copypasta from someone else saying exactly what you're saying, and obviously I also agree with you. Society, however, has been forcibly restructured such that the healthy age gap is no longer acceptable and actively sabotaged.
17841413? ago
My post was targeted at a based 19/f anon.
It's definitely harder for men, due to toxic social norms. But where there's a will there's a way, and it's our sacred duty to do our best to produce the best family environment possible.
Here's a couple suggestions to get creative. You have two options as a man: the Bad Boy option and the Community Man option.
Bad Boy: Get the girl to sneak out of her house if necessary. Libcuck dads don't even have shotguns. What are they going to do, call the police on their 18 year old daughter? She can do what she wants as far as the law is concerned. Pick up girls around colleges. Parents don't typically stalk their girls once they send them off to college.
Community Man: lead church youth groups, but obviously don't be a creeper. Give the girls real moral guidance, steer them away from the slut trap, give free educational tutoring, etc. Befriend the PARENTS, tell them about how their daughter is doing, etc. If the community and parents love you, they'll actually encourage their daughter to marry you.
17832567? ago
Here you go miss, good luck and keep up the good work https://www.eviemagazine.com/
17851153? ago
evie is super cool been reading them today well I was out of the house, the advice is really good and it feels like the kind of webpage you could share with anyone without power-level leaking
>>13079764
what exactly do you mean by that and how do you spot them
I figured older would be better but had no idea what age range would be reasonable so thank you!
easy as pie I freak out seeing kids naturally
The baby and kid test thing sounds so simple yet I would have never thought of that on my own it's brilliant
A good family man is a man that already loves his family sound logic
basically if he tries to force sex It is a red flag and I need to say to myself he is not for me and move on
Mission protect Virginity at full throttle, by "long enough" is there a good rule of thumb of how long is long enough or is it more of a stage that you reach where your thinking "ya this dude is the guy I want to start a family with for sure"
I too wish for a place with "religious values" just for the sake of being a good moral person, not for an almighty god and afterlife
also don't want to support pedophiles but that's obligatory
your very informative and type in a very nice way thank you
>>13082128
No asking out I figured but still was not sure
all I know of courting is from like dumb hallmark movies on W what exactly is courting in like the modern day
mmkay thumb up over here, I do have a little question is like a scratch/pat on my head the same level of hand-holding because my dad does that for me and I really like the idea of a guy I want to be romantically involved doing it and I don't know what kind of level of intimacy it is or is that something I need to decide
kinda like that how to find a good wife greentext where the guy asks about the girls values on the drive over to the date, if he did not agree they did not even make it to the date and he drove them right home , it goes both ways for male and female ok
I hope things work out for you too thank you!
17810719? ago
what kind of scream?
t. former sleepwalker.
17824702? ago
the people downstairs called the landlord because they thought I had a baby up here so like a baby I guess