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17808628? ago

I only ever lurk but I'll post because I feel I really am starting to need help and I don't know where else to start with getting it.

How can a 18 (almost 19) year old female virgin find a husband without negative attention from my social group for "being a dumb kid who got married too fast" or "god it's so sad kids having kids" I don't have much people in my life and I don't want them to think less of me for wanting a family

How do you ask a guy what his values are without sounding autistic

How do I share my values without seeming weird

How do I bond and show love for my boyfriend (when I get one) if I want to stay a virgin till we are married

I was raised atheist but with good morals because of my dad (and because I took rules too literally I am told) would me starting to go to a local church to meet a guy with similar values be a good idea, or is that manipulative in nature?

I know this one sounds stupid but can I ask a guy out first without seeming like a hussy?

How different is self-improvement strategies for females vs males, will most of /SIG/ work the same for me as any other anon

How important is it for a girl to finish high school if she wants to be a stay at home mom anyways (I got suspended & dad said f-it you can do it online and we have not gotten around to it yet)

is their a webpage with a right wing polictal ideals but more girls then boys

Unrelated to how to get a boyfreind stuff I have had problimes like crying randomly and screaming in my sleep since my dad has gotten me back from my mother, we went to the docter they said it was ptsd (I still say thats a bit strong of a word for whatever this is but whatever), dad is 100% anti jew pill pushing but he let me try them, this went on and on and every pill made me way worse so he pulled the plug after the 2 years-ish of trying diffrint medication. So I'm off what they were giveing me for a year now but I still am kinda screaming and crying any /pol/ aproved fixes other then time?

17832567? ago

I only ever lurk but I'll post because I feel I really am starting to need help and I don't know where else to start with getting it.

How can a 18 (almost 19) year old female virgin find a husband without negative attention from my social group for "being a dumb kid who got married too fast" or "god it's so sad kids having kids" I don't have much people in my life and I don't want them to think less of me for wanting a family

How do you ask a guy what his values are without sounding autistic

How do I share my values without seeming weird

How do I bond and show love for my boyfriend (when I get one) if I want to stay a virgin till we are married

I was raised atheist but with good morals because of my dad (and because I took rules too literally I am told) would me starting to go to a local church to meet a guy with similar values be a good idea, or is that manipulative in nature?

I know this one sounds stupid but can I ask a guy out first without seeming like a hussy?

How different is self-improvement strategies for females vs males, will most of /SIG/ work the same for me as any other anon

How important is it for a girl to finish high school if she wants to be a stay at home mom anyways (I got suspended & dad said f-it you can do it online and we have not gotten around to it yet)

is their a webpage with a right wing polictal ideals but more girls then boys

Here you go miss, good luck and keep up the good work https://www.eviemagazine.com/

17851153? ago

evie is super cool been reading them today well I was out of the house, the advice is really good and it feels like the kind of webpage you could share with anyone without power-level leaking

>>13079764

beware of fake Christians

what exactly do you mean by that and how do you spot them

look for men that are between 25-35

I figured older would be better but had no idea what age range would be reasonable so thank you!

An easy to way to test the waters if the man is interested in a family, is to get really excited with any baby you see around. Tell him how cute they are, then look at his facial reaction

easy as pie I freak out seeing kids naturally

The baby and kid test thing sounds so simple yet I would have never thought of that on my own it's brilliant

Look for men that spend time with their family, and most importantly, treat their mothers well.

A good family man is a man that already loves his family sound logic

If he tries to force sex too early it's because he's either a douche or he's a boy your age that is raging with hormones

basically if he tries to force sex It is a red flag and I need to say to myself he is not for me and move on

Once you've been together long enough, you can let him play with your tits. Once you are engaged you can give him blowjobs. But do NOT sacrifice your virginity until you get married and have agreed on the number of kids you want to have. Virginity is HIGHLY VALUABLE and not something you should be ashamed of.

Mission protect Virginity at full throttle, by "long enough" is there a good rule of thumb of how long is long enough or is it more of a stage that you reach where your thinking "ya this dude is the guy I want to start a family with for sure"

I am personally looking for alternatives to Catholicism. That is something that clearly and strongly considers birth control an evil temptation, but is not a church that harbors and protects child molesters.

I too wish for a place with "religious values" just for the sake of being a good moral person, not for an almighty god and afterlife

also don't want to support pedophiles but that's obligatory

your very informative and type in a very nice way thank you

>>13082128

strike up a conversation or be friendly, but don't ask out

No asking out I figured but still was not sure

definitely court not date (very important)

all I know of courting is from like dumb hallmark movies on W what exactly is courting in like the modern day

do not allow any physical escalation besides handholding

mmkay thumb up over here, I do have a little question is like a scratch/pat on my head the same level of hand-holding because my dad does that for me and I really like the idea of a guy I want to be romantically involved doing it and I don't know what kind of level of intimacy it is or is that something I need to decide

you can and should straight up ask about values, preferably first, so you don't waste valuable time

kinda like that how to find a good wife greentext where the guy asks about the girls values on the drive over to the date, if he did not agree they did not even make it to the date and he drove them right home , it goes both ways for male and female ok

I hope things work out for you too thank you!