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4TheRepublic ago

"The natural place is here. It's your call Voat always has been and always will be, but maybe we could learn a bit from them, and them us. Think about it."

....

"I'm just going to say that the back and forth I've had tonight with subscribers of v/theawakening have been the most pleasurable I've had on Voat. (Maybe I have low standards or you're just good people). I'm voting to keep them. Can we Voat? You owe me this one!"

But does it matter?

I meant to ask you @PuttItOut... Where do I get information about contributing to Voat?

PuttItOut ago

It does matter. We are both targeted by the same people. We are in this together, us and you. Sound familiar? Voat may not be your first choice, and you aren't Voat's, but we share similar values and that very much matters. At least to me.

Every good friendship I've had in life was usually preceeded by an earlier conflict. There is a bond that happens when two different parties fight then resolve it. The conflict strengthens the relationship, much like various forms of stress strengthen the body.

In my small mind it would be a great conclusion to this if our teams came together as a whole. We will see, but I'm hopeful.

4TheRepublic ago

Fair enough... Except for the "...and you aren't Voat's [first choice]..."

Maybe it's attributable to my little patch of property on The Spectrum, but I STILL can't get my head around this.

(1) How can ""Voat"" determine that a person isn't its first choice?

(2) If one is a registered member of Voat, is one not ""Voat""?

(3) Is this nothing more than a mostly anonymous version of Survivor? Alliances formed. Plots enacted. Off the island! When the process is complete, everybody's gone but one.

Yeah. I don't get it. But that's OK. There might be some kind of conflict here. But I'm not fighting. I just want to understand ENOUGH to know what's happening...at least as it relates to me. Team? I didn't know I had a team.

Rock on. Live long and prosper.

@PuttItOut

VoatsNewfag ago

I assume you mean the autistic spectrum, I've been diagnosed with autism as a child. Though I still can grasp the concept of generalization and it's usefulness.

So here is unnecessary detailed, downright autistic answer:

(2) If one is a registered member of Voat, is one not ""Voat""?

Yes. Similarly, if one takes a photograph with a camera, one is a photographer. But if someone describes themselves as a photographer, we assume that they are a professional photographer, not someone who just once made some photos. Technically almost everyone is a ""photographer"", but only some people are photographers.

It is a similar principle. Yeah, technically you're "voat" after making one comment, but at the same time you're not, not really. Just technically.

(1) How can ""Voat"" determine that a person isn't its first choice?

The same way that any other community or arbitrary group of people can make a choice. For example men decided that the gym is the first choice to better their appearance. Women decided that makeup is their first choice. Doesn't mean that there aren't men with makeup or women hitting the gym and not wearing any makeup.

Generalizations are not about technical accuracy, they are about pragmatism.

Generalizations and abstractions are how we make sense of the world. Every tree you encounter in your life is entirely unique. Every "cat" you encounter is entirely unique. It has it's own unique genetic makeup, unique colors, unique shape, unique personality. "Cat" is an abstraction. Imagine what life would look like if you tried to no longer perceive the world in abstractions and generalizations - you wouldn't be able to function. It would render you useless as you would constantly try to make sense of the world and it's too complex for you to make any noticeable progress.

Some people think it's wrong to apply generalizations to human groups and communities, but I think that's nonsense. I will treat people wearing suits differently than people that have vulgar tattoos and piercings on their bodies. If I had to decide whether I sit next to a bunch of business man or a bunch of skinheads on a train, I'd choose the guys with the suits. And so does everyone who tells you that generalizing people is bad.

Generalizations have their faults and can be unfair to individuals, but we shouldn't try to get entirely rid of them or think of them as entirely bad. No matter what people in your life told you to believe.

(3) Is this nothing more than a mostly anonymous version of Survivor? Alliances formed. Plots enacted. Off the island! When the process is complete, everybody's gone but one.

Is this the reply to putt stating that conflict strengthen relationships? I'm not certain what you mean. Why would everybody be gone?

Anyway you can make friendship with someone after conflict because you can observe first hand how they treat people that are against them - are they still respectful? Are they fair, or do they distribute lies among your friends behind your back? Are they willing to resolve conflict or do they rather pretend nothing happened the next day?

Seeing someone in conflict tells you a lot about their core values and whether or not they're trustworthy.

4TheRepublic ago

i'm not going to read this bullshit...refer to my other response. you'll know the one. maybe this will help: https://voat.co/v/theawakening/2723150/13879054

keep practicing. ...or not. yeah...re my https://voat.co/v/theawakening/2723150/13879054 response, this is looking more and more like a @PuttItOut sockpuppet.

"Seeing someone in conflict tells you a lot about their core values and whether or not they're trustworthy."

this is telling.

seeing someone in person, and having some IRL grasp of his/her IRL experience in life is more telling.

keep pissing in the wind. [not to denigrate piss in any way.]

VoatsNewfag ago

this is looking more and more like a @PuttItOut sockpuppet.

I simply don't like it if assholes attack voat or bully our admins. Even if they pretend to be all polite and nice while doing so.

If you want to believe that I'm alt of Puttiout fine, I take that as a compliment. But you do know that this does not render any argument I made invalid, yes? It's just another convenient way for you to dismiss counter-arguments without engaging them.