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Bludgie ago

Ooh!! You I like!! I apologise profusely for vociferously insulting your platform on multiple occasions!

PuttItOut ago

Damn internet. I can't tell if you are insulting me and I'm too dumb to tell or are sincere.

Bludgie ago

I am sincere. I know it's hard to tell from the tone, though. But when I am being insulting there is pretty much no doubt, as I have almost zero impulse control. So there is that! I'm pretty much a well-meaning, live and let live person until I get mad. I am too soft for free speech places but over the last decade I have been insulted pretty much a gazillion times because I never met a fight I didn't like, even when I lose. Overall, I do learn from people, though, who often start out as a nemesis. Respect and understanding have grown out of it, and sometimes people have totally or partially changed my mind about an issue. Iron sharpens iron and all that. So some of those people, from those fora have become frenemies, and of course I made many friends. Sometimes the hate on a forum has been too much, though, like after my daughter died and someone I liked and respected tore me to pieces for starting a relationship with my boyfriend. The sweet spot for me, really, was on Twitter where I didn't care who followed me or didn't, I had direct access to politicians and public figures I wanted to berate or support, and I had somewhere to share things that were important to me. I hate not having a voice, although I fear it as well.

RickFlairWOOOOOO ago

When you learn to learn from anybody, you become lax in impulse control because you still applying the golden rule. After awhile you look at yourself and ask by God am I just the most awful person or what? and then you may take it down a notch or carry on. My voat outburst are a great way to deal with my Shadow. In my daily life I'm a very easy going person. I suspect some well respected preachers are on here reaming people daily.

Bludgie ago

There's certainly a freedom in anonymity, or perceived anonymity, to say what I really think--especially if you're not censored, socially constrained, shadow-banned or deplatformed.

I often conclude that I'm not a very nice person. I am a caring person, though. I care about almost everything. It's damnably stressful.

Most people, if they saw me unfiltered, would probably not like me.

I was a very soft person before Scientology. I had soft eyes. Now my eyes are always hard, like a bird's. I can't take a good picture anymore, even allowing for all the other reasons. Even 25 years after escaping.

Sometimes I think the religious people are the worst. Like Jesus was this really cool person, or the story of him is, but most of the people who claim to follow him don't actually live like he did, speak like he did, or practice what he did. Every so often one of them really pleasantly surprises me.