My best friend is gay. He comes from a family of 8 kids, six are boys. All six of the boys are gay. His parents and each other had no idea until each came out in their late 20's. One time we were drinking and I asked him how he knew he was gay. He said he didn't. He was raped by his father's business partner when he was a kid, and it became normal to him. He found out all his brothers were raped as well. Not saying that this happens to all, but it certainly happened to this family. If I were the father, the business partner wouldn't be alive anymore. (I'm a female btw, if it matters).
Every lesbian woman I have known (less than ten) was severely abused by her male relatives (brother, father, uncle, grandfather, etc.). As a result, they were afraid of men and hated them. One woman who had been "lesbian" her entire life met a loving, gentle, patient man while in her 60s and suddenly "wasn't gay" anymore.
Of course, our anecdotal stories are statistically moot. But I suspect there is tons of abuse behind these homosexuals. I also am convinced that a parent with NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) is a recipe for having homo offspring. There are tons of survivor children of NPD parents, and the rate of gayness amongst them and their siblings is through the sky. I know of several homosexual males who had overbearing mothers who "wore the pants" and they had weak, effeminate, ineffectual fathers. I believe that this role reversal is a factor.
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Saibra ago
My best friend is gay. He comes from a family of 8 kids, six are boys. All six of the boys are gay. His parents and each other had no idea until each came out in their late 20's. One time we were drinking and I asked him how he knew he was gay. He said he didn't. He was raped by his father's business partner when he was a kid, and it became normal to him. He found out all his brothers were raped as well. Not saying that this happens to all, but it certainly happened to this family. If I were the father, the business partner wouldn't be alive anymore. (I'm a female btw, if it matters).
00-00 ago
Even Milo. Same thing.
I'd say homosexuality comes from 2 sources:
There might by a third one:
In a very twisted way, NAMBLA is a recruiting tool.
equineluvr ago
Every lesbian woman I have known (less than ten) was severely abused by her male relatives (brother, father, uncle, grandfather, etc.). As a result, they were afraid of men and hated them. One woman who had been "lesbian" her entire life met a loving, gentle, patient man while in her 60s and suddenly "wasn't gay" anymore.
Of course, our anecdotal stories are statistically moot. But I suspect there is tons of abuse behind these homosexuals. I also am convinced that a parent with NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) is a recipe for having homo offspring. There are tons of survivor children of NPD parents, and the rate of gayness amongst them and their siblings is through the sky. I know of several homosexual males who had overbearing mothers who "wore the pants" and they had weak, effeminate, ineffectual fathers. I believe that this role reversal is a factor.