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equineluvr ago

His former wife, Demi Moore:

zagreos ago

Thank you for your contributions to this thread.

His former wife, Demi Moore, was 15 years his senior, she 40 and he 25 (smacks of pedo).

Your other points were good, but I think comparing such relationships with paedophilia is counterproductive. Blurring the distinction between paedophilia and voluntary relationships between consenting adults has the long-term effect of normalising paedophilia — even if the distinction in this case is being blurred by condemning both as 'paedophilia', the long-term consequences of drawing such an equivalency will be the same.

Likewise, a 25 year-old male in a relationship with a 16 year-old female can be criticised for many other reasons but it would be a huge error to view such an individual as a "paedophile", since the relationship in question is a voluntary relationship between biological adults. In virtually all cultures (including Western cultures until about thirty years ago), such a relationship would be viewed as a normal adult relationship.

To lump relatively normal adult relationships into the same category as 'paedophilia' sets a dangerous social precedent that can only be harmful to children in the long run. This recent social trend by which the concept of paedophillia is continually expanded so that it includes normal or harmless adult relationships, makes paedophilia seem more and more normal to regular people. To speak of harmless adult relationships as "just another form of paedophilia", is to spit in the faces of the victims of real paedophilia.

No matter how you look at it, raping a five year old child should not be compared with regular adult relationships, regardless of the magnitude of the age discrepancy between the adults in question.

Mad_As_Hell ago

There is such a thing as ephebophilia https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ephebophilia

A lot of Dennis Hastert's activities fell into this category. Legally speaking, this is very much a no-no when you're talking about under-16s, depending on the age of consent where you live. Personally I feel that there is always some form of advantage taking by the older party occurring in these 'relationships'. Remember that whole 'cougar'/milf thing? Normalisation of ephebophilia?