lol I feel for you - keep it on the down low! Cool to have a 5th column in there.

Now here's a thought - if you know her even remotely, why not somehow, discreetly, figure out a way to ask her yourself? You could take some time about it, no rush. There's going to be plenty of tears in the white wine during the next few days, maybe you'll run into her somewhere. At any rate thanks for the reasonable response, I appreciate your position.