Try feeling for the victim and never sympathize with the predator. That's how you, yourself, can be lured in. I have read all about Charles Manson. I feel really bad for the child he was. He was treated horrible and it made me feel bad for him. But, when someone crosses over that line by choice then they are on their own.
I'm gonna say this but I mean it really nice. I think you seem like you have a good heart. But considering what you went thru, your depression and you sympathizing like this kind of reminds me of the people who marry the murderers in prison. Have you thought about why it seems you kind of make excuses for him? Maybe it's a way for you to cope?
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srayzie ago
Try feeling for the victim and never sympathize with the predator. That's how you, yourself, can be lured in. I have read all about Charles Manson. I feel really bad for the child he was. He was treated horrible and it made me feel bad for him. But, when someone crosses over that line by choice then they are on their own.
I'm gonna say this but I mean it really nice. I think you seem like you have a good heart. But considering what you went thru, your depression and you sympathizing like this kind of reminds me of the people who marry the murderers in prison. Have you thought about why it seems you kind of make excuses for him? Maybe it's a way for you to cope?