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satisfyinghump ago

Honestly this just makes me feel bad and empathize with them.

Although I believe we should be trying to procreate and prevent our extinction, it doesnt mean I cant support young men and men in general, who for some reason just cant meet someone.

Honestly, and I say this fully believing we are each responsible for ourself (and those we care for), but when I see some of their posts and read how when some of them were younger, they had an absent father or they were raised solely by their mother, i cant stop myself from feeling bad towards them.

Honestly, ask yourself, as a child, a boy, who doesnt have a proper father around, how do you insure you get the kind of character building and influence needed to carve a young man out of childish clay, especially when a father figure is missing... you may not even be aware that a father figure is necessary! If anything, the mom may have poisoned your childish mind that all men are toxic and that she knows when you become a man, "you wont leave your mother like they did!!!", youll do her e CV ery bidding. And in the process become a complete turn off to most young women...

That being said, we each need to make up on our own how or if at all, we will welcome these refugees.

Before anyone begins rallying the goats to hold the line and not let the barbarians in side, think of this as a possible teaching moment, a turning point in each of these clearly lost and empty vessels. They at their core do not believe in a life without women, perhaps a few, but not all.

Whereas before they had an echo-chamber to feel comfortable within, here, we can make them comfortable with what makes a proper man as well as being comfortable in their own skin and brain. Perhaps we can still have SOME impact on these lost boys?