I don't know either of you guys from a bar of soap, I'm just reading it based off the words there.
Wait, so she was skulking around behind her husband's back? Fucking degenerate. Personally, everything that I say and do online, or otherwise, I am happy to show my SO (at any time as well without warning) so that everything is above board, and that he doesn't have to worry that I'm flirting with randoms online. I wish that others would do the very same in the interests of transparency for their SO's.
The fact that she spoke to you after being asked such a question is also very telling. If you were a friend of mine and you asked for a tit pic, I'd be snarky in response to you, and then end the friendship. By virtue of not being able to keep your dick in your pants, that is someone I'd not want to be friends with any longer. Though, the fact it was you who ended said "relationship" (for lack of a better word) is also very telling. Sounds like it's attention whore territory.
I would ask the same question - does her husband know? If she is keeping secrets from her husband, then it is a relationship based on deception. Secrecy is what kills marriages these days.
I don't normally involve myself in others' drama, though this sort of behaviour needs to be called out.
In this day and age, being transparent is the best possible way that I can show my loved ones that I have no reason to, or that I am not engaging in, deception in any form. Men have it hard enough in the world given the absolute shitstorm that is modern day society with the amount of trash which is rampant - I don't need to make my SO's life even harder by him constantly worrying that his other half is engaging in the same. It's why we have a policy of "No secrets and no lies" - the fact of the matter is, if you have secrets or you lie about something, eventually it's going to come out, and it will be 100x worse when it does. I'd rather own up to something and face the consequences, rather than trying to avoid said consequences or deciding what's best for my SO via deception. Such behaviour is disgusting.
I live by my morals as best as I can, knowing that I do still have flaws (that do not involve lying and stealing from others) - but at the end of the day, I know that what I have done is free of degeneracy, and that I can, in good conscience, say that I have given my best efforts on anything that I try to do.
My only hope is that others do the same thing, though that is often a fools' errand.
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Intrixina ago
I don't know either of you guys from a bar of soap, I'm just reading it based off the words there.
Wait, so she was skulking around behind her husband's back? Fucking degenerate. Personally, everything that I say and do online, or otherwise, I am happy to show my SO (at any time as well without warning) so that everything is above board, and that he doesn't have to worry that I'm flirting with randoms online. I wish that others would do the very same in the interests of transparency for their SO's.
The fact that she spoke to you after being asked such a question is also very telling. If you were a friend of mine and you asked for a tit pic, I'd be snarky in response to you, and then end the friendship. By virtue of not being able to keep your dick in your pants, that is someone I'd not want to be friends with any longer. Though, the fact it was you who ended said "relationship" (for lack of a better word) is also very telling. Sounds like it's attention whore territory.
I would ask the same question - does her husband know? If she is keeping secrets from her husband, then it is a relationship based on deception. Secrecy is what kills marriages these days.
I don't normally involve myself in others' drama, though this sort of behaviour needs to be called out.
Dismember ago
That's a really good attitude you have there and good to see.
Intrixina ago
Thank you.
In this day and age, being transparent is the best possible way that I can show my loved ones that I have no reason to, or that I am not engaging in, deception in any form. Men have it hard enough in the world given the absolute shitstorm that is modern day society with the amount of trash which is rampant - I don't need to make my SO's life even harder by him constantly worrying that his other half is engaging in the same. It's why we have a policy of "No secrets and no lies" - the fact of the matter is, if you have secrets or you lie about something, eventually it's going to come out, and it will be 100x worse when it does. I'd rather own up to something and face the consequences, rather than trying to avoid said consequences or deciding what's best for my SO via deception. Such behaviour is disgusting.
I live by my morals as best as I can, knowing that I do still have flaws (that do not involve lying and stealing from others) - but at the end of the day, I know that what I have done is free of degeneracy, and that I can, in good conscience, say that I have given my best efforts on anything that I try to do.
My only hope is that others do the same thing, though that is often a fools' errand.
Dismember ago
You're welcome and I hope the rest of your day or night is a good one.
Intrixina ago
Cheers. You too.