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17002459? ago

Request: What are some resources to avoiding and dealing with people who try to control you, and others in say, an office environment?

I feel like I have a problem with being manipulated by other people, I want to change this aspect of me.

I've found quite a few books on the opposite, I know their tactics, what I want is information on how to protect myself from them, how to keep myself from being an enabler, and to keep my balls where they belong so to speak.

17011726? ago

You don't need to read books on not being controlled. What you need to do is lose the fear over losing your job. I'm aware you can't blatantly say whatever is on your mind and that current job. They're used to you being a pushover. Find another one and just fucking blurt out whatever you're thinking. I've done that since I started mine three years ago. They expect it from me now.

17011738? ago

find another job

Easier said than done. I want information on how to defend myself from control tactics, because 90% of the information I get from the other side of the coin is basically a handbook on how to be an abusive cunt.