The guy who was cheated on, here

I had a lot of positive thoughts this last hour. I was mourning the loss of an illusion. I'm starting to realize my ex always had problems, ones that i just couldn't resolve. This would have happened 5 years ago, 8 months later, or 8 years later. I'm blessed to have found the truth before I sealed the deal. People tell me I'd come out stronger on top of all this and they're right. I should have been more critical, less permissive, and less naive as though it could have never happened to me. I'm learning a great deal now that my shattered illusions are turning into a clearer picture and I'm feeling happy and relieved for the first time since it happened . Life's about change, it's unavoidable. Surprises strike out from nowhere but they're not always bad. As much as i could have been blind to this tragedy that was about to occur, the chance of a good one of the same intensity is just as possible. I have come out of this unscathed, well, as long as my blood tests come back clean lol

All sorts of new possibilities are waiting for me and what happened was for the best.