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16384383? ago
I just found out that my girlfriend of almost 10 years was cheating on me. She has been very secretive with her phone lately so I attempted to access her snapchat which I noticed was her most used app. She lunged over and turned off her phone so i couldnt access it. She changed her password which i used to know. I asked her what was in her snapchat and she refused to tell me. I told her either i see what's in there or I'm leaving. She didn't say anything and refused to open her phone. We lived together for years. Now I'm sitting in some parkinglot waiting for the sun to rise so i can try and move back in with my parents. I was going to propose to her onbour 10 year anniversary of being together. The only reasoning i could get out of her as to why she did it was that "i used to be a lot nicer." God knows what was on that snapchat. I'm fucked. I don't have any friends outside of work and living with my parents is beyond annoying with all sorts of rules and shit. I don't know where else to go. I have no one to talk to. I'll recover, probably, but this is just such a huge shock. I thought she was different and that we'd always be together.
16385181? ago
I know this situation seems awful right now because you have so much emotional tied in with this situation. So let me talk to you as I am not emotionally attached to this situation.
I don't know what your living situation situation is, all I know is that you live together so I'll assume you're moving to your parents because you don't own the home or you rent or something. I suggest putting the lease in her name or breaking the tenancy with her (assuming she is on lease). Immediately start applying for new places and start organising your items at your old place so you can move in one day. After that you do not communicate with her at all. Then to take your mind of her hit the gym, be with your friends and get on with it.
I've been through this before. It's not worth extending any further emotion, anger or time on. She cheated on you and would not be a good wife or mother to your children. Just fix the living arrangement as quickly as possible and everything else will fall into place.
16385182? ago
Thank you for replying. Good advice. I think that the silver lining out of all this is what you said, i know she would not be mother material. I intend to give my future children the rearing they deserve and be treated like real human beans. I'm obviously need time to recover, but do you or any anon reading this know where to find good women? It can't be church because I'm not going to pretend to be christian. I've seen some decent girls at stores i frequent, although i am definitely not able to cold approach women cuz I know I'll 'tism. I'm thinking after a bit I'll try to get involved in local clubs or groups for certain hobbies i enjoy and work from there. God damn this technological age atomizing everyone. It breeds two dimensional relationships like the one with whoever my gf was fucking with. I invested so much into her and now I've had my position reset back to zero. Sorry for my rambling.
16443517? ago
You know anon, I'm a pagan (Hermeticist) that regularly attends every theology meeting I can, and goes to Churches and enjoys it. Nobody has kicked me out yet and people like me. I recommend to just go to such places and show you have an interest but be open as well that you are not actually a Christian. I wear a Caduceus on me all the time myself too which shows I am pagan.
Besides that though I'm part of an aquarium society and I have various hobbies and I talk with people at the market.
16447163? ago
I love how chill you sound. You're pagan but sound more rational than the parts of /pol/ (shills?) that want Christianity destroyed.
Just got to ask, why go to church if you're pagan?
Peace? Community? Understanding?
Thank you