I can't remember where I read it, but I read the account of a grown gay man who, as a teenager, had supported lowering the age of consent. He'd been a twink who'd been used by PIE in their efforts to lower AoC. As an adult, he said he recognised that he'd been groomed, exploited and sexually abused as a teenager. It's only when someone is an adult and has come out of the victim mentality and recovered from Stockholm Syndrome that they recognise it for what it was--abuse and rape. I am sure that Michael Jackson has lots of adult victims around who are still 'in love' with him and seek to protect him and who do not recognise that they were abused.