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spiffyaintit ago

Many of us who created consensual erotic fanarts would not have our blogs marked "adults only", so as to show up in the tags, BUT we'd properly tag our work so that those who wanted to view it (but didn't have their blogs set to "adults only" due to their own naivety) -- could do so.

As innocent as our reasons for it were, we were part of an ever-increasing problem on that site.... a problem where words were given trigger-warning tags, but sexual content was a free-for-all.

Yes, I am ashamed that I circumvented that rule and guideline. But pizzagate woke me up, in more ways than one. I never considered that children could be on that site, pretending to be 13 (or older). I never considered that they could come across the art.... however consensual and artistic it was, and that it could very well do them emotional harm.

Just because most fandom-raised individuals of my age knew that graphic sexual content (art and fanfic) were common place, doesn't mean we shouldn't do something to stop it from becoming "the norm" for kids of today.

So bravo to Tumblr for doing what they can. I hope Deviantart follows-suit. At the moment theirs is more "no erect penises, or we'll erase your blog" but MANY OTHER sexual arts do actually exist on that site.

If people want to see erotic fanart for their faves, there are many, many, many locked and safe options for it.... without putting the mental health of children at risk.

Sorry for my ramble. I'm just one part ashamed and guilty for my past usage of tumblr, and a whole heap of supportive of Tumblr for this move to safeguard kids.

carmencita ago

There shouldn't be anything on Tumblr that shows any Children in any kind of compromising position.. At all. That stuff shouldn't be available anywhere at all. We know it exists on the dark web but when we have sites like Tumblr and others that are skating on thin ice, well, that makes it just too easy for Children to access. I am glad you have turned over a new leaf. Just saw an article today on how seeing porn affects Children. Not pretty. I can't believe people actually watch this stuff with Children in the room. What has this country come to is what I want to know.

spiffyaintit ago

Just to clarify in case it was seen as thus.... I never posted or saw content depicting children in a compromising position. Mine was above-board with adults, just poorly tagged in hindsight.

But yes I get what you're saying entirely.... my half sis used to make me watch porn when I was 12, and in addition to obscene things she did to me it's turned out she was one of three sexual abusers of me.

I had just never imagined that tumblr had 13's and under on it. I feel like an arse and a fool for it. And have sworn since to do my utmost to fight for the kids who deserve a harm-free space on the web.... wherever they go.

carmencita ago

I am sorry for what happened to you. Very sorry. Evidently your half sis was also abused or she wouldn't do such things. Remember though, that many that get addicted to adult porn may fall into the trap of not having enough results and that's how they get addicted to Child porn. It becomes a huge addiction. The fact that you were abused as a Child is what can cause you to need this adult porn. I suggest you get a therapist to resolve your problems about your abuse, this is very serious. I have a friend that is a member here that was a SRA Victim of a priest and she has had serious therapy. This is something very serious that you need to fix within yourself. It can cause many problems in your life down the road and as I see it has already. Please get help.

spiffyaintit ago

Thank you so very much for your words @carmencita. My sister was abused as a child as well :( I've been in therapy for many years, but my biggest "issue" was that I wasn't talking about what happened to me, and thus other things linked to it (in hindsight) I wouldn't talk about either. But in the past year I have completely turned my life around, I have returned to my childhood Christian faith, and feel like a whole new me. That's why I'm in the fight with you all... because I've been a victim of childhood rape and sexual abuse, and I've let myself go down paths I shouldn't because the past experiences made me feel like "oh, it's okay to watch adult porn, it's okay to write erotic fiction, it's okay to create erotic art" and..... it really isn't! This stuff is satanic in nature, and we (humanity) need to fight to get back to God.

carmencita ago

You are a good soul especially that you know your faults. Many do not and many know but won't admit it. You are on the right road. The road to recovery. I too have re found my faith. The strangest thing is that the pope is the worst one within my life but I now realize how important it is before it is lost. We must fight to keep God in our lives. We must fight before they take it away; They are confiscating Bibles in China. Catholics are going underground. Fight for your right to believe. God Bless You +