Correct names can be brought in a little later maybe 3. Unless you want the child to come up with these names at parties. That always creates a lot of fun. Showering together is a little strange to me. The boy and dad is ok. But the mom, I don't think so. Also when the boys get to puberty I think showering with another male is not appropriate. I know that my husband tells about how they had to shower together in high school (boys only of course) and this created a lot of shame because of joking etc. Also why do we do this to boys? I do not like it. They should stop showering with mom. I remember there was one woman in our group when younger, she decided this was a great idea and had to prove how "in" she was. So whenever her child left the room to go potty, she would always say don't forget to wipe your vagina. I always said, oh, wow! thanks for telling me, I would not have known. She still kept it up. People are way overdoing this stuff. You can always teach them the correct words later on. They are not missing out. The most important thing you can teach a child is to respect him and herself and others. Anatomical Correctness Run Amok.