You are going further than the judge did. The Judge never said he believes the abuse happened.

Mr. Allen's relationship with Dylan remains unresolved. The evidence suggests that it is unlikely that he could be successfully prosecuted for sexual abuse. I am less certain, however, than is the Yale‐ New Haven team, that the evidence proves conclusively that there was no sexual abuse.   ... I agree with Dr. Herman and Dr. Brodzinsky that we will probably never know what occurred on August 4, 1992. The credible testimony of Ms. Farrow, Dr. Coates, Dr. Leventhal and Mr. Allen does, however, prove that Mr. Allen's behavior toward Dylan was grossly inappropriate and that measures must be taken to protect her. ... After considering Ms. Farrow's position as the sole care‐taker of the children, the satisfactory fashion in which she has fulfilled that function, the parties' pre‐litigation acceptance that she continue in that capacity, and Mr. Allen's serious parental inadequacies, it is clear that the best interests of the children will be served by their continued custody with Ms. Farrow