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Kacey ago

I had friends in High School who had gone to Catholic School until 9th grade. This was in the late 60's. They told me the teacher nuns would have to leave from time to time to have babies because they got knocked up by the priest. I never heard that he abused any of the kids. But imagine growing up in a faith where the local priest who is your confessor is known to be violating his oath of celibacy. That in itself is an abuse as you teach them one set of rules for them and another for the adult who is their spiritual leader.

Gilderoy ago

Kacey, I also went to a Catholic school with nuns, and let me tell you, if a priest had tried anything funny with those nuns he would have left the premises in a pine box. I'm not disputing that such scandalous things may have happened before the changes to the religious orders occurred in the 1960's, but such incidents were exceedingly rare before disciplines were changed. If you really understood the culture and the system of preconciliar convents and women religious and also of traditional Catholic parish life, you would realize how absurd such stories are. Many, many safeguards and disciplines were in place to prevent scandals like that. Women religious had a very rigidly structured existence. Just one example: nuns were never, ever allowed to go anywhere alone. They always had to travel or be in public in pairs.

Same thing with priests. Before the changes of Vatican II, there were many safeguards and rules in place to prevent even the whiff of scandal. I'm sure untoward things still happened, but the entire culture and atmosphere was built on layers of protocol and conventions that were almost impossible to break out of. That is probably why everything went wild in the 60's. The priests and nuns threw off all the shackles and broke all the rules, but that's a story for another day. : )

Kacey ago

So are you saying that no sex abuse happens in the Catholic church anymore? Or just that no nuns get raped anymore.

I presume that each church, especially those that are smaller and have one priest, run by the rules that priest sets so the character of that priest would probably be more indicative of what was likely than rules laid down in Rome.

Any rate here is the number of Catholic priests defrocked since 2004 for pedophilia. I would guess that number is the tip of the iceberg.

GENEVA -- The Vatican revealed Tuesday that over the past decade, it has defrocked 848 priests who raped or molested children and sanctioned another 2,572 with lesser penalties, providing the first ever breakdown of how it handled the more than 3,400 cases of abuse reported to the Holy See since 2004.

As for raping nuns http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2001/marchweb-only/3-19-32.0.html

Several reports written by senior members of women's religious orders and by an American priest assert that sexual abuse of nuns by priests, including rape, is a serious problem, especially in Africa and other parts of the developing world....Countries listed in the report include Botswana, Burundi, Colombia, Ghana, India, Ireland, Italy, Kenya, Lesotho, Malawi, Nigeria, Papua New Guinea, the Philippines, South Africa, Sierra Leone, Tanzania, Tonga, Uganda, the United States, Zambia, Zaire, and Zimbabwe. Expect the fallout to continue for a while.

Gilderoy ago

I never denied that sex abuse happens in the Church. I addressed a claim you made implying that it was commonplace for priests to impregnate nuns teaching in Catholic high schools which I very seriously doubt ever happened on a wide scale in the United States, esp. before the Second Vatican Council. As for the experience of nuns and priests in the Third World, I have no idea. I assumed we were speaking of the United States.

Regarding clerical pedophilia, I agree with you that it happens in the Church; I have had personal experience fighting the appointment of a Catholic pastor who had a very dodgy past and was the subject of many allegations who was being shuffled around the diocese by the bishop. I fought that situation tooth and nail, wrote multiple letters to every one up and down the ladders of power, made phone calls, assembled a 110-page dossier, contacted canon lawyers----and lost. The priest is still pastor of my parish, though I have long since moved on.

I KNOW THERE IS A CLERICAL PEDOPHILE PROBLEM IN THE CATHOLIC CHURCH. I think the percentage of priests who are criminal pedophiles is small, but the fact that bishops and popes did not do enough to eradicate it and compensate and help the victims is an enormous scandal and sin. That does not mean that I have given up on the Catholic Church; I will never give up my faith, God willing, and I hope and pray the Church will return to better practices and a better understanding of Catholic morality and responsibility.

Kacey ago

Gilderoy, I never said or implied that what I heard of as a kid was commonplace among priests. I just related the one story I knew of.
You wrote

If you really understood the culture and the system of preconciliar convents and women religious and also of traditional Catholic parish life, you would realize how absurd such stories are. Many, many safeguards and disciplines were in place to prevent scandals like that.

I was responding to what I thought you were implying, ie that such stories are rare. I don't know if priests raping nuns is rare or was rare, I only know what my friends told me. In fact if true, the nuns could have been willing and not raped. What they were allowed to do outside the church when they went out has no bearing on what might have gone on at night when no parishioners were around. I know that the pedophilia scandal with priests is real and that priests used their power to coerce young boys to have sex with them. It appears to be more common than was originally thought because, higher clergy, police, politicians helped cover it up and parents and parishoners were so in awe of the priests that they went into denial. If that could happen with little boys and girls I suspect it could happen with nuns. At the time my friends told me this I was shocked and didn't know what to think. But given the revelations about pedophilia by priests it seems likely it did happen and if it happened in one parish it probably happened in others.

If the catholic church is so good at patroling their own why this https://www.usnews.com/news/national-news/articles/2017-07-05/vatican-police-find-drugs-sex-in-raid-of-cardinal-secretarys-apartment

Vatican police have reportedly raided a Vatican-owned apartment and arrested an aide to one of Pope Francis' key advisers.

Kacey ago

Further http://childabuserecovery.com/are-catholic-priests-and-nuns-murdering-their-own-children/

Today Nun-in-training Sosefina Amoa sat in a Washington D.C. jail awaiting 23 May sentencing for voluntary manslaughter in the death of her newborn. According to The Washington Post Sister Amoa admitted to smothering the baby she named Joseph after giving him birth at the Catholic Northeast Little Sisters of the Poor Convent. Although the nuns reported Sister Amoa to police, Catholic authorities have not always been transparent about homicides committed within their secretive walls. According to child abuse survivors of Catholic institutions, it was common for priests and nuns to rape and kill children, especially a newborn. There was assurance from the Vatican that anyone tarnishing the Roman Catholic Church by reporting such crimes would be excommunicated and thus live in eternal Hell.