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angry_mob ago

i would really be interested to see some stats on how many "men in general" partake in this terrible behavior vs. men who don't. what is the ratio? exactly how widespread is this phenomenon? and how many elites are in big biz, but don't participate in pedophile behavior? i know that these are impossible questions to answer, but i can't help but wonder what the hell is actually going on. it seems like most men, average men, would never cross that line. but what if i'm wrong? and HOW wrong would i be then? and then what of the women involved? why do they do it? to please men? because they are just psychopaths? just for the money? we know they can be molesters, but how many REALLY do this? more than you would think? yeah, my brain works on overtime, that's for sure! sheesh i need a rest!

10330510? ago

i would love to believe that most men are not involved or do not have these desires, but my experience with them (and i'm male) suggests otherwise. pornography addiction is a suspect; when you spend your life watching porn and attaching your sexuality to it, you become desensitized and require even more extreme stimuli to be satisfied. sometimes this leads men to child porn; more often than not they just get into sick shit like rape porn and faux necro porn. so much porn emphasizes young or "barely legal" status for the women. sure, it's a free country and one could argue that just watching this stuff is nothing to complain about but i personally disagree. acceptance of these things and desires is not without social and moral consequence. every time you masturbate to something sketchy or sick you're reinforcing neural pathways and requiring stronger stimuli. where does it end for a person like that? what's the limit?

i'm interested in knowing how many women pedophiles are out there. i wish there were some studies and statistics we could draw from to understand this phenomenon better but for obvious reasons there isn't much. i think it's safe to guess there are less than men, but it's obvious they exist. the average manifestation of pedophilia is a paraphilia that i believe is based on the fact that the pedophile feels inferior and inadequate, has strong anxiety around forming relationships with adults, and is attracted to children because of their helplessness and inferiority in comparison to them. sometimes it's a paraphilia that stems from child molestation; develops when the child is exposed to a sexual stimulus during abuse and their brain wires their sexuality around this. i've noticed this happen in people who were molested by other kids. so in some instances this could be happening to female pedophiles.

in other cases, yes, i think some women also do it to please men, the ones you see who "let their boyfriends have their daughters." are they psychopaths? i think they're mostly weak fragile narcissists with no empathy. other conditions that manifest a lack of empathy could lead to a transactional mentality where yes, it's all about the money. some of the women involved are victims themselves. women are much smaller and lighter skeletally than men, it's why the male gender has subjugated women to the degree it has, maintaining a physical dominance over mate selection. this trauma has followed women for centuries and many of them will just do whatever a threatening man is telling them.

my problem with the article is that it leaves out all the boy children who are also raped by these fucking freaks. it happens a lot in the middle east.

angry_mob ago

true dat. yeah, strangely i have been watching a lot of youtubes about the issue of narcissists. i know a bit about them from reading articles and a book called "without conscience" by dr. robert hare. a great, quick read if you're interested. i have a personal interest in the subject because i seem to be attracted to them and at least one of them i suspect to be a pedophile. i ended up moving out of state to try to start my life over (i ended up with a different psychopath! shit.) so i didn't get enough proof to go child protective services. it was his own daughters, fucking sick! their behavior tipped me off. i was with them 5 months, so i tried to be a sane person in their life. (mother was a crack head)

i felt and still feel guilty about not coming forward with this, but i had already moved out and was getting ready for a big move to seattle. also i had no evidence to bring to the table. what would i really say? "i have this hunch...". except that all of my other hunches proved to be right.

ah well, i can't change the past. one thing the vids talk about with narcissists is how great they are at convincing the people around them that they are such great people, and it is YOU that is the shmuck. i bet many of these pedos are psychopaths or narcissists. they fit the bill.

thx!

10374250? ago

i know how you feel. i've had to witness many instances of child abuse and be left there bewildered as to what i could even do about it. just goes to show how backwards and sick and dysfunctional our society is, and how it's deliberately set up to perpetuate abuse. i'm sorry you experienced that.

narcissists are easy to spot once you understand their psychology, and truly understand it beyond pop psych symptom lists. those are good for an introduction but they aren't nuanced enough in the many ways narcissism manifests. narcissists are as varied as regular people in their specific motives, interests, and presentations, but they all share a basic psychological pattern of functioning, an archetype of sorts. i personally believe we're facing an epidemic of narcissists, many of the "covert" manifestation. this is particularly dangerous when coupled with uber-liberal "tend to all the shy weak people like they're children" dogma; boy do covert narcs love to manipulate our good will with their victim status.

convincing the people around them that they are such great people, and it is YOU that is the shmuck.

narcissists are really good at that. you'll notice the resident shills (mostly the jew haters) play this psychological card almost every time they foolishly open their mouths. the only way to stop being duped again and again is to have strong self worth, self knowledge, and most importantly, STRONG BOUNDARIES!

SYNCORSWIM ago

You're describing sociopathy. Narcissism and sociopathy go hand in hand. I recommend reading "The Sociopath Next Door." It's an easy read. It isn't necessary to have a background in psychology to understand it. Once you start reading you can't put it down. According to the author 1 in 25 people is a sociopath. A sociopath has no conscience and doesn't feel love, guilt or remorse. She gives different real life scenarios to help explain how a sociopath operates. It's my favorite book. I gave it to my dad to read because he was having problems with a person I suspected of being a sociopath. I went to his house the next day and he was reading and taking notes.

10411105? ago

they go hand and hand because they are not separate conditions, but part of a spectrum of disorders of empathy that often intersect to the point where i don't think distinctions need to always be made. the names deserve a renaissance too because i feel they're misleading and loaded.

but regardless of what one calls it, i agree that they need to be understood by everyone who isn't devoid of empathy. just as they project their flaws, we project our good intentions on others, and that's what gets us fucked over.