I heard Milos comments, and while it made me cringe, I also had to remember he was a victim of child molestation, and was discussing his own experience of being victimized. for some reason has minimized what happened to him in his own mind so he can deal with it. It's actually somewhat typical for a victim to take a stance like this to not have to feel like the victim that they were. i also believe him when he says calling a guy a "boy" doesn't actually mean boy, but young man. I know gay guys who talk like that and my female friends and I would often refer to guys as "boys" when we were in our party days. This is being blown out of proportion.