When was the video published? If it was before the current awakening, then of course he would project as it being ok at age fourteen. Hell how many of us went for the older (college) girls/guys in our late teens? He justifies his identity - at that time. Now look at today, and after the awakening, and the reality of how vast the problem is. If you want to stop this horror, then do not blame the victims, we need them to come forward and help end this battle.