I cannot believe how so many people are missing one point, I have gay male friends from school.none of them are every hanging around babies in fact rarely are they keen to hang out with babies that much. Even streight single people do not hang with babies on that scale of time...Think about it people how often do any of you hang with babies. How the average person does not get that is beyond me. I honestly did not hang out with a baby,until I had one.