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smokratez ago

It will take a while. Then you will appreciate your ability to question everything and see it as an asset, instead of a curse.

Gracchi ago

How long? Because I'd just say its a curse. It wouldn't be if there was any hope of actually using that knowlege to improve things.

smokratez ago

You need some zen in your life then. Don't worry about things you can't change. Work on that which you can change.

greiierg ago

aka Stoicism.

smokratez ago

Do you have a link to a concise explanation of stoicism? I tried to read some I found on google, but couldn't follow what they were talking about.

edit. I found this one. " To conduct conforming to the precepts of the Stoics, as repression of emotion and indifference to pleasure or pain."

I don't follow that line of thinking. I enjoy my emotions, without letting them take over my sense of logic. Being indifferent to them, would be denying who and what I am as a human being.

greiierg ago

That quote is too simplistic of a description. Consider this short list. http://people.wku.edu/jan.garrett/stoa/stoabasi.htm

smokratez ago

The ancient philosophy of Epictetus, Seneca the Younger, and Marcus Aurelius, among others. Stoicism focuses on living a virtuous life, and devoting yourself fully to your task at hand, while stressing indifference to the events outside of your control. Stoicism teaches that the quality of life depends entirely on the individual, and that events can only make you persistently depressed or unhappy when you are a faggot.

Stoics experience emotion like any other person, they have just realized that it is a self-harming choice to allow emotions to effect your well-being after the initial emotional reaction has passed.

A Stoic is, in effect, the extreme polar opposite of an emo.

This is what urban dictionary had to say about the topic. Is that accurate enough?

I read the short list you posted. I consider violent feelings a natural part of being a human being. Wanting to beat up someone when they fucked me over is healthy. Not doing it because the consequences might be detrimental to my well being is being logical.

There are some good things so far that I have read about stoicism. However saying it's exactly my philosophy about how to live life would not be accurate.