I was with someone who has a "learning disability" for awhile, and it was hell, other than when we were fucking. Just dealing with things like her not knowing how to do her own budget, not being able to figure out how to get to new places, being a horrible driver, having to explain every little thing fifteen fucking times eventually made it not worth it. She was smart enough to hold down an entry level job, could write well, and so on, but she was logic/common sense/intuition retarded. Not sure what her IQ is, but definitely on the low side.
So basically, I would not have sex with someone even slightly learning impaired/retarded again, even if she was absolutely blazing hot, like the person described above was. Because then, you're stuck with lust and feelings for someone who's impossible to be with. Which is a horrible thing to go through.
I rather be with a mediocre looking intelligent person any day over a hot dumb one. As long as they were not a super fatty. I draw the line there. You can be hairy, or have a bit of acne or knock knees or a big nose as long as you can discuss things like how light travels and the symbolism in a David Lynch film.
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big_fat_dangus ago
I was with someone who has a "learning disability" for awhile, and it was hell, other than when we were fucking. Just dealing with things like her not knowing how to do her own budget, not being able to figure out how to get to new places, being a horrible driver, having to explain every little thing fifteen fucking times eventually made it not worth it. She was smart enough to hold down an entry level job, could write well, and so on, but she was logic/common sense/intuition retarded. Not sure what her IQ is, but definitely on the low side.
So basically, I would not have sex with someone even slightly learning impaired/retarded again, even if she was absolutely blazing hot, like the person described above was. Because then, you're stuck with lust and feelings for someone who's impossible to be with. Which is a horrible thing to go through.
hypercat ago
I rather be with a mediocre looking intelligent person any day over a hot dumb one. As long as they were not a super fatty. I draw the line there. You can be hairy, or have a bit of acne or knock knees or a big nose as long as you can discuss things like how light travels and the symbolism in a David Lynch film.