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Diogenes_The_Cynic ago

Shrinking family sizes and loss of religious belief do tueir damage as well. Can't imagine how people without siblings socialize.

ErrorHasNoRights ago

I see these stories about the growing sociological problems in China because of the one-child policy. Apparently all these kids grew up as "little emperors" because they were only children and showered with attention... and boy do they end up with a completely warped view of reality.

Another issue is that small families make it much harder to run a small, family-owned business. A few teenage boys and their friends can make a decent landscaping crew. Most of the family-owned businesses I see around here have their kids working as helping hands. During seasons of higher volume, they rope in their kids' friends from the local school as well.

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ErrorHasNoRights ago

Well that was all a horribly depressing read, but in line with expectations.

In more recent decades, the transition has eroded the God-fearing, “middle American” white working-class family, too—and their communities. As of 1980, about 75 percent of white working-class adults were married, a figure very close to the 79 percent of high-income adults. By 2017, however, the working-class number had fallen to only 52 percent. Worse, white working-class adults divorce at much higher rates than more educated adults. “The white working-class family is today more fragile than the black family was at the time of the famous alarm-sounding 1965 ‘Report on the Negro Family’ by Daniel Patrick Moynihan,” Putnam has written.

The crumbling of the white working-class family has contributed to the country’s opioid crisis. Opioids are now the leading cause of death for people under 50: a majority of them are unmarried or divorced men. Though only 32 percent of the population, that group of adults accounts for a stunning 71 percent of opioid deaths. Opioids themselves, now a larger cause of American deaths than car accidents, are poisoning the foundational kinship bond between parents and children. Officials believe that opioids are at the root of a heartrending increase in foster-care placements. Fourteen states experienced a 25 percent rise or more in the number of kids sent to foster care between 2011 and 2015; Maine saw a 45 percent increase in that same period.

What a fantastic future we have in store for us.

I recall many years ago when I was a young whipper-snapper teenager posting on the newsgroups and the "world wide web" forums with my passionate histrionics about how the moral decay of America was going to end in total catastrophe. I wish I could go back and shake that kid and tell him that his hysterical predictions weren't nearly dire enough.

I guess it turns out morality really does matter.

The challenge is to find ways to communicate that need to coming generations before they make decisions that will further fragment their lives and communities. So far, that’s not happening. Millennials and their younger brothers and sisters say that they would like to marry and have children, but only 30 percent see a successful marriage as one of the more important things in life. About half shrug off single parenthood as a nonissue; in their view, cohabitation is fundamentally the same as marriage. Though the overall share of American babies born to unmarried mothers has declined a bit in the past few years, the majority of births to millennials are to unmarried women. So far, younger kids—Gen Z, as they are sometimes called—don’t look as though they’re ready to rebel from the nonchalance of their older siblings. In a 2018 survey of attitudes of 10- to 19-year-olds by PerryUndem Research and Communication, three-quarters rated having a successful career as “very important.” Fewer than a third said that marrying or having children mattered that much. Notably, boys and girls had almost identical answers.

Just splendid.

It’s hard to imagine more concrete evidence of the truth of the old cliché that family is the building block of society.

Mmmmm hmm. "Disorder in society is the result of disorder in the family." -- St. Angela Merici (1474 - 1540)

KosherHiveKicker ago

All thanks to the Kikes pushing...

ErrorHasNoRights ago

Four in ten American children are now born to unmarried mothers, up from about 5 percent in 1960. In 1970, 84 percent of U.S. children spent their entire childhoods living with both bio-parents. Today, only half can expect to do the same.

That should end well.

captainmurphy1 ago

Unmarried though doesn't mean single mum. People don't see marriage as important anymore.

ErrorHasNoRights ago

Though later in the article it indicates that cohabitating couples tend to split, whether they have kids or not.

Hence, "only half [of kids] can expect" to grow up living with both parents.

We are headed for disaster.

What you see in the inner city today is what the entire country is going to look like in 20 years. Some of us are on the ground floor and seeing it now.

captainmurphy1 ago

Ah I see.

Very depressing, but at the same time I'd like to be there to watch it all come crashing down, just out of morbid curiosity.

spaceman84 ago

Of the remaining half, many are dysfunctional marriages and families with "toxic parents" as they've been termed. This is what happens when you compound multiple generations of mental illness/personality disorders. Parents produce damaged offspring who may or may not produce more severely damaged offspring. We're observing end stage behavioral sink.